Monday, July 16, 2012

Is it ReaL ?

#3.

              The day we were born and was exposed in this wonderful world, God given us a very special gift, the gift of life. We are sent in this kind of world to make good things, enjoy our life and fulfill our individual missions, set and programmed by God. When this mission is already done, even though it's sad to think but we should accept that everything in this world has it's end, including us. This is the time where death took place.

              Death is inescapable. It will come at the right time in our lives. No one is exempted of this. Everything that came from "womb" will end up to "tomb". We never know when that time will be, no one knows. Death comes in a sudden, unrecognizable and we should be prepared enough for it. Since our lives are just limited, we should spend our time in earth wisely. Allocate it for the things which are important, give more time to your family, show your love for them, make every moment meaningful and unforgettable, because when your time here in earth is finished, it will never ever come back again.

              It is very hard to accept when someone you love, specifically one of your beloved family members will depart. So much pain will be experience and questions why that love one should be took away. It hurts more when you recall your memories being together and sharing a lot of happy moments then suddenly will be grabbed by death, without even noticing it's already over.

              Moving on when someone dies is not that easy of course. It takes weeks, months, years or even more to forget the pain being planted in our hearts when they left. We even find ways just to see them even inn a ghost form, through dreams and imaginations, satisfying ourselves that they are really there, still communicating to us and still with us.

              But the question is, IS IT REAL that there are ghost? or it is REAL that they can communicate or give signs to us that they are still there for us? The passage "The sweet and unforgettable day" is the best example or way to convey that this is true. Some maybe convince by it, but some are not. Maybe, those who were convince have there own experience about this things and those who did not have none. But experience is not the bases for us to believe in ghost. We need a great proof that this is real, sufficient evidence and pure reality. Confusions now took place for this situation, where we will believe.

            For me, I haven't experience any ghost thing, I will not say it's false and I will not also it true. I will just explain my side regarding this matter. First, I will say it is so confusing because for instance as what I've said, it's not easy to move on when someone in our family will die. So this might be the reason for these things to be build up in our minds, believing that they came back to communicate with us. Imagination of not sure things takes place because of  the hard up in moving on. I did not say that it is false, but for me it is still a question left unanswered.

           In general, I think this things are not important, whether ghost are true or not. The important thing is we have shared a lot of happy memories with our departed love ones and this moments will never be erase nor death will be the reason for us to forget all about it and not to continue our own lives. Wherever they are now, we should be glad that they are now experiencing the everlasting life with God and living in peace. And I'm sure, even if ghost do exist or never, they will always be there for you.
 

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